FAQ: Buying a Home in Delaware County — First-Time Buyer Guide
This page is for anyone who is thinking about buying a home in Delaware County, Pennsylvania for the first time — or who feels like they're starting from scratch. Every answer is written to cut through the confusion, explain what actually happens, and help you feel confident enough to take the first step.
For a broader overview of the buying process and Delaware County communities, visit the Buying a Home in Delaware County page →
I want to buy a home but I don't even know where to start. What do I do first?
The honest answer is: start by having a conversation, not by searching listings.
Most people do it the other way around. They spend weeks or months on Zillow, fall in love with houses they may or may not be able to afford, and then feel deflated when the financial reality doesn't match what they've been dreaming about. That's a hard way to start.
What I recommend instead is a simple, no-pressure conversation about your situation — where you are financially, what you're hoping to accomplish, and what timeline makes sense for your life. From there we can build a realistic picture of what's actually possible, and then start looking at homes that fit that picture.
If you'd like to start there, schedule a free call here →
I'm sitting in my current home dreaming about buying something bigger. But I have no idea how to even go about it. Where does someone like me begin?
This is one of the most common places people get stuck — and it makes complete sense. You know what you want, but the path from here to there feels completely unclear.
The good news is that the path is clearer than it looks. It usually starts with two questions:
First, what is your current home worth, and how much equity do you have in it? That equity is often the key to unlocking your next move, whether through a sale, a bridge loan, a HELOC, or another creative structure.
Second, what does your income and debt picture look like? That determines what you can qualify for on the next purchase.
Once we have answers to those two questions, we can map out a realistic sequence of steps that gets you from where you are today to where you want to be — without guessing or hoping things work out.
The worst thing you can do is assume there's no path forward without actually checking. In my experience, there almost always is one. It just takes someone who knows where to look.
If you currently own a home and are thinking about selling it as part of your move, you may also want to read the Delaware County Home Sellers FAQ →
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Can I start looking at houses before I get pre-approved?
Yes — and honestly, I encourage it, at least to a point.
Here's my approach: I will typically show a first-time buyer one home before we dive into the pre-approval conversation. Why? Because buying a home is a big, emotional decision, and I want you to feel comfortable with me as a person before we get into the harder financial stuff. Walking through a home together gives us a chance to meet, talk, and get a real sense of what you're looking for.
But after that first visit, the pre-approval conversation has to happen before we go further. Here's why: without it, you don't actually know what you can afford, and more importantly, you don't know what you can comfortably spend. Those are two very different numbers — and understanding the difference between them is one of the most important things I can do for you as your agent.
What is pre-approval and why does it matter so much?
Pre-approval is the process of having a mortgage lender review your income, your debts, your credit, and your assets in order to determine how much they are willing to lend you. At the end of that process, you receive a pre-approval letter that tells sellers you are a serious, qualified buyer.
It matters for two reasons.
The practical reason: most sellers in Delaware County will not entertain an offer from a buyer who doesn't have a pre-approval letter. Without it, you can't compete.
The more important reason: pre-approval is where you find out what you can actually spend — not just what a lender is willing to give you. Those are not the same thing, and understanding the difference is something most agents never explain.
What's the difference between what I'm approved for and what I can actually afford?
This is one of the most important questions in the entire home buying process, and most people never get a clear answer.
Here's the reality: mortgage lenders approve buyers based on debt-to-income ratios. A common guideline allows your total monthly debt payments — including your new mortgage — to be up to roughly 40% or more of your gross monthly income. The lender looks at that number and says yes.
But here's what the lender doesn't look at: what your life actually costs.
For someone with a high gross income, spending 40% of it on housing and debt may be completely comfortable. The remaining 60% still covers everything they need to live their life — food, utilities, transportation, childcare, savings — with room to breathe.
For someone with a lower gross income, that same 40% might leave the remaining 60% stretched dangerously thin, especially in today's environment with rising costs for groceries, gas, and everyday expenses.
What I do with first-time buyers is work backwards from your actual monthly expenses to figure out what mortgage payment you can genuinely live with — not just qualify for. Sometimes that's 40% of your income. Sometimes it's closer to 28%. The right number is personal, and it makes all the difference between a home that improves your life and one that becomes a source of stress.
How does the mortgage process actually work? I find it completely overwhelming.
That's one of the most common things I hear from first-time buyers, and I understand why. The mortgage process has a lot of moving parts, a lot of unfamiliar terminology, and a lot of places where something can go wrong if nobody is watching.
Here's a simplified version of what actually happens:
Step 1 — Pre-approval. You provide a lender with your financial information. They review it and issue a letter stating what they'll lend you. This is your starting point.
Step 2 — Home search. Now that you know your budget, we look at homes together. I'll help you focus on properties that genuinely fit your needs and avoid the ones that look good online but won't hold up in person.
Step 3 — Making an offer. When you find the right home, we submit a written offer. I'll help you structure it competitively without overpaying, and I'll negotiate on your behalf.
Step 4 — Under contract. Once the seller accepts, you're officially under contract. From here, there are a series of deadlines — inspection, mortgage commitment, and eventually closing — that we'll track carefully together.
Step 5 — Inspection. A licensed inspector examines the property and produces a report. I'll help you understand what's a real problem and what's normal wear and tear, and we'll negotiate repairs or credits where appropriate.
Step 6 — Appraisal and underwriting. Your lender orders an appraisal to confirm the home is worth what you're paying. Meanwhile, their underwriting team reviews your full financial file. This is often the most nerve-wracking part for buyers — but I'll be in the conversation with you the whole way through.
Step 7 — Closing. You sign a lot of documents, the money changes hands, and you get the keys. That's it. You own a home.
At every step, I'll explain what's happening, what to expect next, and what decisions you need to make. You will never feel like you're in the dark.
What are closing costs and how much should I expect to pay?
Closing costs are the fees and expenses associated with completing a home purchase, above and beyond the down payment. They often catch first-time buyers off guard because they're not always clearly explained upfront.
In Pennsylvania, closing costs for a buyer typically run between 2% and 5% of the purchase price. On a $350,000 home, that's somewhere between $7,000 and $17,500 depending on the specifics of your loan and transaction.
Common closing costs include:
- Lender fees (origination, underwriting, processing)
- Title insurance and title search fees
- Appraisal fee
- Home inspection fee
- Prepaid items (homeowner's insurance, property taxes, mortgage interest)
- Recording fees
- Transfer taxes (Pennsylvania has a transfer tax split between buyer and seller)
I always make sure my buyers understand the full cost picture before they make an offer — not after. You should know exactly what you're walking into at closing before you're committed to a purchase.
I've been told I don't have enough saved for a down payment. Is that actually true?
Probably not. This is one of the most persistent myths in home buying, and it stops a lot of people who could absolutely buy a home from even trying.
The idea that you need 20% down to buy a home is outdated. There are loan programs available right now that allow buyers to purchase with as little as 3% down, and in some cases even less. FHA loans allow 3.5% down with flexible credit requirements. VA loans allow eligible veterans to buy with zero down. USDA loans offer zero-down options in qualifying areas. Pennsylvania also has first-time homebuyer assistance programs that can help with down payment and closing costs.
The question isn't whether you have 20% saved. The question is what you do have, and what programs and structures might be available to you based on your specific situation.
I've helped buyers get into homes in creative ways that other agents didn't think were possible. If you've been told you don't have enough, I'd encourage you to have one conversation before you accept that answer.
Let's look at what's actually possible for you →
Should I buy a duplex instead of a single-family home for my first purchase?
This is a question more first-time buyers should be asking, and most agents will never bring it up.
Here's the idea: instead of buying a single-family home as your first property, you buy a duplex — a two-unit property — and live in one unit while renting the other. The rental income from the second unit helps offset your mortgage payment, sometimes dramatically. In the right situation, you could cut your effective housing cost nearly in half.
This approach has real advantages. You build equity while someone else helps pay your mortgage. You start learning how to be a landlord in a low-stakes, manageable way. And you can do it with a standard residential mortgage, which means the financing is straightforward.
Is it right for everyone? No. Managing a tenant, even a good one, takes some effort and comfort with that role. But for the right buyer — someone who wants to build long-term wealth and is open to a less traditional path — it can be a significantly smarter first move than a single-family home.
I own investment properties in Delaware County myself. If this idea interests you, I can walk you through the numbers in real terms — not in theory, but based on actual current rents and property values in the communities you're considering. You may also want to read the Delaware County Real Estate Investor FAQ → for more on how to think about your first investment property.
Interested in exploring the duplex path? Let's talk →
What Delaware County communities are good for first-time buyers?
The right community depends on your budget, your lifestyle, and what matters most to you — school districts, walkability, commute, neighborhood feel. There's no single right answer, and I'm skeptical of any agent who gives you one without asking those questions first.
That said, here are some of the Delaware County communities that tend to offer strong value for first-time buyers at various price points:
- Springfield PA Homes for Sale — strong schools, great community feel, my home base
- Ridley Township PA Homes for Sale — solid value, good access to major roads
- Morton PA Homes for Sale — affordable entry point, Springfield School District
- Folcroft PA Homes for Sale — one of the most affordable entry points in the county
- Glenolden PA Homes for Sale — accessible pricing, convenient location
- Collingdale PA Homes for Sale — strong value for buyers on a tighter budget
- Lansdowne PA Homes for Sale — character homes, improving market
- Drexel Hill PA Homes for Sale — established neighborhood, broad price range
- Upper Darby PA Homes for Sale — high density, very accessible pricing
- Brookhaven PA Homes for Sale — solid value in southern Delaware County
- Ridley Park PA Homes for Sale — charming borough, walkable, great community
If school district is your primary driver, take a look at these pages:
- Springfield School District Homes for Sale
- Haverford Township School District Homes for Sale
- Rose Tree Media School District Homes for Sale
- Radnor Township School District Homes for Sale
What does working with you as a first-time buyer actually look like, step by step?
Here's what I do, and in what order:
First, we talk. I want to understand your situation — where you are, what you want, what's holding you back, and what timeline makes sense. This conversation is free, low pressure, and genuinely useful regardless of whether you decide to work with me.
Then I show you one home. Before we get into finances and paperwork, I want to get you in a real house so we can get comfortable with each other and you can start to clarify what you're actually looking for.
Then we tackle pre-approval. I'll connect you with lenders I trust and stay in that conversation with you — which is something most agents don't do. I'll help you understand the difference between what you qualify for and what you can comfortably spend.
Then we search with purpose. Now that we have a real budget and a real sense of what you want, we look at homes that actually make sense for you. No wasted time on wishful thinking.
Then I negotiate on your behalf. When you find the right home, I'll help you structure a competitive offer and fight for your interests at every step between contract and closing.
Then I stay with you through closing. I track every deadline, explain every document, and make sure you are never confused about what is happening or what comes next.
The goal isn't just to get you into a house. It's to get you into the right house, at the right price, in a way that actually improves your life.
How do I get started?
Reach out. That's it. There's no form to fill out, no commitment required, and no sales pitch on the other end.
- Call or text: 484-442-0295
- Email: ben@owndelco.com
- Schedule a free call: Pick a time that works for you →
The worst outcome of that first conversation is that you walk away with a clearer picture of your options than you had before. That's worth 20 minutes of your time.
Want to learn more first?
- Full overview of buying a home in Delaware County →
- About Ben Hill — who you'd be working with →
- Thinking about selling instead? Read the sellers FAQ →
- Interested in investment properties? Read the investor FAQ →
Benjamin Hill is a licensed real estate agent in Pennsylvania and Delaware, affiliated with Premier Property Sales and Rentals, 192 Saxer Avenue, Springfield, PA 19064.
